Twin Flames and Soul Mates always fascinates me to see what brings people together. Why are we drawn into relationships that have a certain destiny? Astrology reveals our psychology, spirituality, evolution, and astrology tells the story about karma and past lives, why we are attracted to specific people, our personal past-life patterns–personality and behavior are being acted out in the here and now.

In other words, time is an illusion your past and future lives are running simultaneously in the present. As an astrological intuitive, I see that no two people have identical astrology or past life history, not even Twin Flames.

What is a Twin Flame?

The term most often has been confused with that of soul mates the two are distinctly different. The greatest love story ever told is the one you have with your very own beloved Twin Flame. In the beginning we were created in God (Alpha and Omega) in an ovoid white-fire-spirit-light, the soul was split just like the atom (Adam Kadman) into two identical parts (Twin Flames) each with the same identical soul blueprint. One carrying the male polarity and the other carrying the female polarity. The tai-chi is a symbol of twin flames.

Twin Flames in love spiraling in infinity.

Somewhere in cosmos, each one of us has our very own divine other, who carries either the feminine or masculine polarity. This soul memory of our Twin Fame is so powerful, that we can feel very alone in this world, as we search for that promise of that original perfect love, The Twin.  No other love can compare to your own Twin Flame.

Twin Flames throughout history and literature are seen as tragic love stories. For instance, Lancelot and Guinevere, Cleopatra and Mark Anthony, Samson and Delilah.  The dark forces of anti-love run rampant on planet earth, working to sabotage Twin Flames and keep them apart.  Often Twin Flames do not have enough Self-mastery to maintain a healthy partnership.

As a result, we seek solace in the next best spiritual alternative our soul mate.

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Soul Mates Are Passionate Friends of Old

Soul mates and karmic relationships are the other two types of partnership. Soul mates can create very happy marriages as they are working on similar soul initiations, life lessons, and projects in this life. Soul mates have been friends for lifetimes and may need each other in this life to satisfy a mission or complete a work. They may not experience the incredible, all-consuming, intense love energy as Twin Flames.

Soul mates come in all shapes and sizes and as best friends.

I find the very best marriages are between soul mates they work harmoniously together in business, raising children and contributing to the community.  Soul mates make us feel happier, stronger and richer.

Power couple President Barak Obama and First Lady Michele are an example of soul mates with a very powerful Dharma.

Karmic Relationships

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Karmic relationships are often confused with that of Twin Flames because they have the same intense attraction and emotional charge. I can’t get you out of my head thing, mental obsession. My body will not stop desiring you, the compulsive sexual attraction. In truth, these are often symptoms of a tragic past life experience from a prior life.

Your soul is offering you as a warning Not a green light to get involved. Yet, people often ignore or mistake their Inner Being voice and jump in full speed ahead, only to become hurt, defeated and lost. Karmic relationships are where either the person owes you a karmic-debt or you owe them from a former life. The liaison ends when the debt is paid or when Spirit determines the time of opportunity to play the relationship out is up.

Karmic Entanglements

 All relationships are for mutual growth and personal evolution.   How can you tell if you are in a karmic relationship? No relationship is perfect, but if you feel like you need therapy as a result of being with this person, then this could be an indicator. Feeling drained emotionally, physically, and financially are all indicators of a karmic entanglement. Are there betrayals? Are you doing all the giving and your partner is doing all the taking?  Look-out it may be a karmic entanglement.  We need to love Self more than the need for any relationship.We cannot give love to another if we don’t have it on the inside. In other words, we must have healthy self-love first and foremost. to be in a position to love others completely. This is real love.

You are having a relationship with Self first.  We need to be in a strong healthy relationship with Self in order to be healthy with another. The Age of Aquarius is the age of twin flames and soul mates coming together in love to anchor in our Golden Age. In truth, we are the forerunners of this Great Golden Age dawning.  Karmic relationships are 3D egoic right fighting with an addiction to drama.

They will not be around in the Age of Aquarius. We must become Self-masters and evolve into soul mate relationships.  Saturn moving through Libra (relationships) until Oct 5, 2012 will be examining all of our relationship choices.  Saturn rules integrity. If we are not with our true love we may be getting a divorce. If you know of many folks breaking up now it is a positive.  This is not a negative for we need to be free to be in the new energy of healthy loving relationships.

“That “death do us part” thing is a protective mechanism. It says, “I don’t trust me, and I don’t trust you to be in a place where we are evoking the best from each other. And so, just to make sure, let’s promise that even if we don’t, we’ll suffer it out together.” Every law, sacred or secular, that we have ever seen in your environment has always come from a place of disconnection, from a place of protectiveness.” — Abraham

Fourth dimensional or quantum relationships are based on real intimacy, commitment, passion and allowing each person to be who-they-really-are.

Are you a ‘damsel in distress’?

“Some Lightworkers are behaving like a lady in waiting for their knight in shining armor to return from the Crusades and rescue them. The knight in shining armor may take the form of a soul mate, the government or even benevolent ET’s. In this incarnation we agreed to become our own savior, to willingly relinquish the familiar and comfortable role of victim with no responsibility that keeps our ego feeling safe.

As old souls, we volunteered to be role models for self-mastery and ascension, by healing our karmic past, standing in our Power, and being willing to step onto the world stage and make a difference in our chosen role as masters. Sabotaged by their ego’s fear-based conditioning and attached by an umbilical cord to the mass consciousness of fear, some Lightworkers will settle for an old knight in rusty armor riding a donkey just to feel safe and avoid fulfilling their soul agreement to be the master teachers, healers and leaders of our time..”

—Tips for Transformation, Claudia Coleman

2010-2012 will be transitional years of chaos and unpredictability, our success will be determined by our ability to be flexible and adaptable to our changeable conditions.


If we are too rigid we will break in this new energy.

Practice being flexible

Practice being adaptable

Practice being mutable

Practice being grounded

Let go of Control

Flow with the Changes

Celebrate Change

So you can be:

Thriving in Transition

Thriving in Uncertainty

Thriving in Transformation

Balance Is The Key to All Successful Relationships

The Universe works in a figure eight flow of energy, Giving and Receiving Equally.

Successful relationships are balanced in giving and receiving.

Remember that the biggest relationship and the longest relationship you will have is with Self.  If we are not healthy with Self we cannot be healthy with our true love.

Self-mastery is foundational in uniting with our Twin Flame and having a healthy relationship. The more Self-mastery you garner, the greater you’re light will be to attract and keep your Beloved Twin Flame.

The Age of Aquarius is the Age of Twin Flames and Soul Mates.

That is why the collective negative forces want to sabotage the divine lovers and keep them apart.  The power of true love to heal our economy, planet and people comes from Twin Flames and soul mates united in purpose.   If we had a larger group of soul mates and Twin flames together today.  We would wonder where all the problems we are facing went? Instead, we would be basking in the Sun of our dawning age of love, freedom, abundance and truth.

“Being in love is so good for you. Often when people are newly in love, things that have been bothering them for a long time get better. Something wonderful is calling the majority of their attention, so they’re holding themselves in a better vibrational place, so the stuff they’ve been wanting all along can now zoom in.” —–Abraham

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Kelley Rosano


You can learn more about your Twin Flame or soul mate relationship by having a relationship astrology consultation. To learn more about relationship astrology: Relationship Astrology