Wouldn’t it be great if every person on the planet was kind, loving, and supportive in the ways you want them to be? Unfortunately, it’s just not that simple. At some point, you’ll deal with people that you just don’t vibe with. What’s even worse is that you might stay in an unhealthy relationship because of guilt or obligation.

I’m sure you can think of someone you cringe at the thought of interacting with. It might be a brief encounter with a crabby barista on your morning coffee run.  It might be an ongoing downpour from a childhood friend. Either way, the uneasy feeling that wells up inside you is your spirit telling you to beware! The relationship is unhealthy. That person is draining you of good energy. Sometimes you don’t even know what you are tolerating. You just don’t feel good. Use this tolerations cheat sheet to get to the heart of the matter.

Devoting time and energy to people or situations that make you feel bad is not only uncomfortable, but it can be harmful. It can hurt your self-esteem, rob you of motivation, or even make you feel sick, fatigued or depressed. When you’re experiencing unhappy situations, the vibration of your energy is low. A low vibration attracts more unhappy conditions as well as more reasons to be stressed and anxious.

If you want to enrich your life and be the happiest, most successful version of yourself you can be – upgrade your friends! Think of it this way; if you were a first-time home buyer, would you take advice about the housing market from someone who’s never bought a house before? It doesn’t make much sense, does it? Likewise, if you’re an optimistic person focused on growth, how can you expect to receive loving support from someone who is close-minded, unwilling to grow, or just plain negative? Give up magical thinking that you can change people. Yes, in certain situations you have to work with difficult people. Here are the ten steps for dealing with difficult people cheat sheet.

Hang out with people who are positive, supportive, and successful. Be with people who are financially empowered. Observe them, learn from them. If you want what they have, do what they do! When you’re feeling good and surrounded by like-minded people, you’re in a higher vibration. This is the fastest way to attract more positive circumstances and manifest your dream life.

Cutting ties is never easy, but it will open new doors for you. Being happy and experiencing abundance is your birthright. Use your time and energy wisely! Be your own best friend. Love is waiting for you on the other side.

Always Love,



Get your dance on and Happy Halloween!