You owe it to yourself to become everything you’ve ever dreamed of being. No one will do it FOR you. No one is put here to make YOU happy and to fulfill all of YOUR dreams — no one except for YOURSELF. You are a great spiritual being. You have the POWER within you to overcome the challenges sent your way and to make your dreams come true.

Only you are fully responsible for your own happiness. If you’re waiting on meeting someone who will save you or hand you everything you want on a silver platter, you’ll be waiting your whole life. Yes, people can be helpful for sure. But, no one has the secret to your success – except you!

If you’re waiting on the email, the interaction or a social gathering that will be your golden ticket to the life of your dreams. I need to tell you that waiting attracts MORE WAITING. I am a firm believer that good things do come to those who wait. That is being patient with our own journey and not using it as an excuse to take the right action. Be your own best friend.

Putting your happiness in the hands of someone else and/or some external circumstance is the opposite of living your life from the inside out. When you align your gifts with your passion and your core values, you find YOUR CALLING. This is why you need to be selfish with your soul’s true desires. You need to nourish them! You want to love you more than the need for a soul mate. You want to love you more than the need for others to “get you” and approve of you.

I think our first instinct is to cringe when we hear the word “selfish.” For Instance, women, in particular, are ingrained from an early age to be selfless. We are taught to care for others emotionally and physically. Caring for others is a beautiful thing. But YOU can’t pour from an empty cup. You too have to take care of yourself!

Men also have had their own stereotypes to overcome. “Big boys don’t cry.” “Be strong.” “If you don’t have money, you’re not making it like a man.” What does any of this false programming have to do with being AUTHENTIC? Your desires are yours because they’re your soul’s highest calling. And using your God-given gifts is to honor Spirit. This may require living outside the norms or rules placed on you from childhood.

Being selfish is necessary! It’s essential to take care of your soul and to pursue what makes you light up.

A person who unapologetically creates a reality that excites them is the most powerful and SPIRITUALLY ALIGNED individual in the room! S/he has the purpose and passion. You live with joy. Things become easier because you know that everything is working out in your favor. And your success is inevitable! As you have defined success based on your highest core values and not from what the world tells you success is for you. This is how you take your power back from the world.  

If you’re not turned on by the life you’re creating, why are you creating it?

What would you rather have instead?

What would you rather experience?

Discover what thrills you, excites you, or brings you joy.

If you’re not creating a life you want, then whose life are you creating?

We often forget how powerful our minds are. You are a magnet for more of what’s already filling your mind. You can be, do, and have ANYTHING you want. The power you have is truly limitless!

If you’re not living for you, and you want your reality to change. Change on the inside first. The patterns that form your beliefs end up manifesting your reality. Decide it’s time to unapologetically LIVE for you. Choose the energy you want to present to the universe. Don’t complain that things aren’t as you want them to be. You can’t complain your way out of a situation. And, you can’t fix a situation for the better if you’re in a low frequency from negative thoughts and complaining. You want to TAKE CHARGE and make those needed changes. You want to Be Proactive. It will make you feel better. You are not waiting around for some outside influence to fix you.  

You owe it to YOURSELF to become everything you’ve ever dreamed of. By becoming that version of yourself,  you will attract all of your desires with ease. You’re 100% in control and creating your OWN reality is way more powerful than living in someone else’s.

Create a life that lights you up, a life that brings out the best in you, and fully supports you. You’ll be an UNSTOPPABLE force.

Don’t limit yourself. Your future WILL be the brightest ever because of the work you do today. You may not have everything you want right now, but everything in your life is in the perfect place for you to RECEIVE it in divine timing.  

You just have to put your SOUL FIRST and know that you deserve it. This is the GREATEST LOVE of All.

with enormous love,

XO

Kelley