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How well do you come across? |
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These are how others would likely describe your communication style. |
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Loud |
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Quiet |
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Fast/slow |
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Natural |
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Charged up/down |
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Neutral |
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Complain |
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Pleased |
5. |
Flat |
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Expressive |
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Speak at |
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Share with |
7. |
Heavy/significant |
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Light |
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Pedantic |
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Simple |
9. |
Suspicious |
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Friendly/trusting |
10. |
Rigid |
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Flexible |
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How well do you listen? |
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How well do you hear what is being said, and not said? |
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Listen hard |
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Be with |
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Hear info/facts |
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Hear i tall |
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Wait for evidence |
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Trust inklings |
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Acquires info |
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Learn |
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Listens passively |
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Knows what to listen for |
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Prepares response |
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Hears the person |
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Doubting |
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Accepting |
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Interrupts |
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Prompts |
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One thing at a time |
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Can handle multiple inputs |
20. |
Hears 10-90% |
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Hears 90-100% |
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How well do you articulate? |
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How well are you understood? |
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Talks at |
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Contextualizes |
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Lectures |
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Educates |
23. |
Rambles |
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Succinct |
24. |
Cliches |
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Messages |
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Jargon |
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“English” |
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Rote |
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Personalizes |
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General terms |
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Specific terms |
28. |
Holds back |
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Says it all |
29. |
Convoluted |
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Clear |
30. |
Limited vocabulary |
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Extensive vocabulary |
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What do you converse about? |
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What do you focus on and talk about with others? |
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Symptoms |
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Source of the problem |
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The negative |
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The positive |
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The past |
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The present/how things are |
34. |
Coulds and shoulds |
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What you really want |
35. |
Reactions |
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Chosen responses |
36. |
Swaps info |
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Dances |
37. |
Responds to facts |
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Gets the gist |
38. |
The“What” |
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The“Who” |
39. |
Facts |
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Concepts |
40. |
Others |
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Yourselves |
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How well do you converse? |
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How often do you have fluid, two-way conversations? |
41. |
Repeats/echos |
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Improves phrasing |
42. |
Reactive |
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Responsive |
43. |
Speak(half-duplex) |
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Speak & listen(full) |
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Unaware of mood |
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Matches mood |
45. |
Distracted |
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Attentive |
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Confrontive |
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Evoking |
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Delayed response |
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Immediate response |
48. |
Adds a spin |
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Adds no spin |
49. |
Non-sequitur |
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Tracks/follows |
50. |
Pepper with questions |
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Clarifies what was said |
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How authentic do you sound? |
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How real are you and how real do you sound? |
51. |
Pretentious |
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Non pretentious |
52. |
Puffs up people |
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Is accurate with praise |
53. |
Sneaky |
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Forthright, forthcoming |
54. |
Dishonest |
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Completely honest |
55. |
Overstates |
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Accurately states |
56. |
Performs |
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Relates |
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Knows it all |
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Seeks to learn |
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Is “affected” |
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Real |
59. |
Full of it |
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Legitimate |
60. |
Not genuine/insincere |
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Genuine |
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How big are you? |
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How flexible, respectful and generous are you? |
61. |
Critical |
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Constructive |
62. |
Excludes people |
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Includes people |
63. |
One-ups |
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Endorses |
64. |
Disrespectful |
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Respectful |
65. |
Result-driven |
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Person-oriented |
66. |
Judges |
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Tolerant |
67. |
Pushes agenda |
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Shares your views |
68. |
“On” |
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Not“on” |
69. |
Rigid |
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Open |
70. |
Digs |
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Builds a person up |
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How mature are you? |
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What does your communication style tell others about you? |
71. |
Hesitant |
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Confident |
72. |
Fearful |
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Goes forit |
73. |
Speaks haltingly |
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Fluid |
74. |
Repeats/mimics |
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Synthesizes |
75. |
Gossips |
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Doesn’tgossip |
76. |
Childish |
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Adult |
77. |
Blames |
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Owns |
78. |
Clueless |
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Speakswithwisdom |
79. |
Speaks from theory |
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Speaks from experience |
80. |
Righteous |
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Compassionately accurate |
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How free are you of communication blocks? |
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What’s holding back your effectiveness as a communicator? |
81. |
Compulsive talker |
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Listens more than talks |
82. |
Personally needy |
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Has plenty, a reserve |
83. |
Adrenalined/up |
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Present |
84. |
Ignorant |
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Informed/educated |
85. |
Toxic personality person |
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Clean and healthy |
86. |
Attached to past |
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Creating a future |
87. |
Stressed |
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Calm |
88. |
Unconscious |
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Conscious/aware |
89. |
Blind spots |
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360 degree view |
90. |
Conspiratorial |
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Cooperative |
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How effective are you? |
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How good are you at producing results? |
91. |
Hints at |
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Asks directly |
92. |
Silent/says little |
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Speaks up/requests |
93. |
Dealing in past |
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Dealing in the present |
94. |
Immediate gratification |
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Long-term investor |
95. |
Win-oriented |
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Win-win oriented |
96. |
Problem-oriented |
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Solution-oriented |
97. |
Book knowledge |
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Streets marts |
98. |
Shares a goal |
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Inspires with a vision |
99. |
Bounces around |
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Sees/gets right to problem |
100 |
Talks about stuff |
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Is “for”stuff |
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I am not sure how to answer the above. I am not sure which one I am. I would like to know how to use it though I definitely feel I need it, a new/improved communication style. Thanks.
I would love to do a webinar on this awesome program. I may offer it in August and tie to it reaching your dreams and prosperity.
Very thought provoking. Good tool for self reflection & development. Also helps pinpoint why some folks can be so frustrating to talk to.
I have been watching your videos. Today, I read you. You are very professorial and educative. Every bit . You are awesome, Kelley. I mean it.
Hi Kelly, I would love a person reading. I know it’s here but I can’t find it or I’m over looking it. But I am August 31st born woman and I’ve been listening to you for some years now and it’s like you know me:) I believe in the gift you possess.
Thank you