my four keys to success

I’ve been a coach and teacher for many years. I’ve helped men and women discover their passions, learn how to escape their personal limitations, and grow to new heights. 

When you start a personal growth journey, a lot of ingredients go into the mix.  

Courage

First and foremost, it takes courage! Courage to admit you can do better and be willing to try new things.  

It takes a massive amount of courage to set out into new territory. Whatever your version of “familiar” is…even if it’s not ideal…is often much more comforting psychologically than something new. The human brain doesn’t like gambling on comfort. We’re creatures of habit. 

Being open to the new is truly half the journey. 

Mentorship 

The second ingredient for success is mentorship. Change takes a good mentor or coach. I set up my Academy to teach others how to find their success and be prosperous. But you know what? I, too, have a coach! 

I’ve always been hard on myself. I find and exaggerate my faults. Sometimes I refuse to admit areas where I need to improve. It’s human nature! But a good mentor or coach will help you see yourself as you really are. They’ll help you find a path for growth and hold you accountable.  

Whether you take a course in my Academy, find a personal coach, or connect with a colleague to ask for support. That extra knowledge-sharing and accountability is key for your OPTIMUM SUCCESS. 

Self-reflection 

The third thing that you need to grow is insight. This can come from so many sources.  

Self-reflection plays a big role. We learn so much of how we act (and react) from our family. And from our experiences growing up. Was your family fighting all of the time? If so, calm might be unfamiliar and even uncomfortable. So, you stir up drama because it feels “normal.”  

I also teach about insight in my courses. If you want to make money, you need to do some digging into your past and find your money blocks. 

Perhaps you grew up in a family that never had enough. Or, your parents viewed rich people as spoiled and selfish. These types of views can lead to a skewed perspective on success and making money. There could be a subconscious belief that, if you become wealthy, you would become a spoiled brat. And, to you, it’s more important for you to be a good person that may struggle with money. But, once you understand these blocks, you can work towards removing them and opening up to wealthy and successful energy. This is rereferred to as your Money Mindset. And you know the old saying, “It’s not how much you make, it’s how much you keep.”

 Astrology

The stars are there to guide you. So, why not let them. Your personalized money report is a great way to learn more about your relationship with money.  

How do you like to earn money? What is your potential? And what areas are you likely to excel in when it comes to making money? The money report contains all of this info.  

For instance, I discovered that while I love to be creative and work independently. But, my major purpose in life was teaching. My Part of Fortune is in Taurus (rules money.) And in my Ninth House of teaching. Your Part of Fortune will show you where is your greatest happiness and Joy and where you will be the most PROSPEROUS.

For me, when I learned this, I’d had my YouTube channel for a while. My videos help guide people’s lives. But I realized that teaching was much more my passion and a key to my happiness. That’s when I felt that it was time to start my Academy. It was scary to move out of my comfort zone. Life never provides guarantees that what you do will work out, but I knew it was time to grow in a new direction and that I could help many people build a path to their own financial independence. 

I thought to myself, if I am unwilling to take a chance, how could I ask my students to take a chance with me? 

The minute you choose to do what you really want to do, it’s a different kind of life. I was ready for my life to be different. Sometimes it’s good to shake things up and break out of your comfort zone and take your life in a new direction.  

Here’s the bottom line: if you want success, you deserve every possible tool to get yourself there. Maybe you want to grow a business. Maybe you want to pay down your credit cards. Maybe for you it’s about finding inner peace in the new year.  

I believe in you! Whatever goal you’re searching for, you are worth the best! There’s no point in doing anything halfway.  

Go ALL IN in 2020 and work every angle and every avenue! Be UNSTOPPABLE and you WILL get there!

To your success! 

Love, 

Kelley

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PS.

From winter to spring, we will use the quiet introspective time of winter to pull our energy in and focus on building thriving YouTube Channels and Winning Websites. It’s a brilliant time to work on growing your own channel because there are far fewer distractions in winter. There are so many ways you can use YouTube to grow your business. YouTube is always looking for great content. Think of what 1000 loyal subscribers could do for your livelihood. You don’t need large numbers to do great on YouTube. And I can show you how!

I will teach you the techniques you need to grow fast and work smart with less stress and struggle so that you can enjoy the journey. We’ll have tons of fun too!

Wanna learn more about my free webinars coming in January? 

Here’s the link to buy your very own personalized money report.

 

 

What is spooking you?

Since today is Halloween, I thought it would be fun to talk about ghosts. I love horror movies – including ghost stories. I’m not into the slasher-type horror flicks.  But I do like the psychological ones that feel real – like they could actually happen.  

As much as I love a ghost story, though, I do not like ghosts. You see, I’m not talking about the kind that slams doors or hovers over your bed at night. I’m talking about the ones you carry with you day in and day out. They haunt your every thought, your every decision. They leave you sleepless at night. They wreak havoc on your relationships, your job, your self-esteem. They turn your whole life upside down! 

We all have them. Ghosts live inside of you. Ghosts whisper to us and tell us that we’re not good enough. Maybe your ghost is an abusive ex that you still hear in your head. He or she is calling you a failure every time you make a choice. Or, maybe it’s a parent that was too hard on you as a child. You can still hear them telling you that you’re too this or too that. Or that you are just not good enough.   

Ghosts whittle away at your self-esteem by buzzing in your mind with negative thoughts.  

Here’s the thing, though. These ghosts are imaginary. They live in your head! Their sole purpose is to sabotage you. This is good news. It means it is possible to banish them!  

To banish them, though, you need to fully understand WHY these ghosts have hung around.  

I’m going to tell you why right now: 

As bad as it may be, the familiar can be more comfortable than the unknown.  

That voice in your head telling you that you’re a failure? Well, you know what failure looks like, right? But what does happiness look like? Happiness (or success, or true love, etc.) is brand new. And I bet it’s a little scary, right? 

In my Academy, in every course I teach, I include a section about how to clear your money blocks. Money blocks are those things that keep you from earning what you know you deserve. They’re just like ghosts. 

Find the source of your ghost, understand what it’s doing for you, and you can beat it. I promise. Who are you not live your full potential? Why would Creator send you here to live small and hide your light? God wants for you to live the abundant life. In this way, you can do more for the world. This is good. 

Now, since it is Halloween, go have one last hurrah with those old ghosts! Spend a little time with them and examine why they’re lingering in your life. Then it’s time to start fresh and banish them from your mind. 

Your homework is for every negative thought your ghost says to you, you will replace with two positives about you. They can be anything. For instance, you are kind. You are a good listener. See where I am going with this assignment? 

Now, what are two things you like about you? 

Love,

Kelley
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This may surprise you but, I used to have trouble with my mindset

This may surprise you but, I used to have trouble with my mindset.  I was angry and frustrated. Because of the limiting roles that women were confined to growing up. I was told as a teenager by my father that women can be one of two things: a nurse or a public school teacher. That was code for, ‘you’re going to have to figure this one out for yourself kid.’ I am the only college graduate in my family.

The truth is I hated public school. It felt like a prison sentence to me. I never liked school until I got to college because it was the first time that I had experienced intellectual freedom. I thought maybe I was born in the wrong place and at the wrong time, and that I needed to go back to Venus because that’s where they “get me.”  

I used to joke that my mother should have named me Murphy for “Murphy’s law.” Because I was always drawing trouble to myself. I always seem to choose the hardest path. If it was easy, it can’t be the way. If I’m not struggling, I must be doing something wrong. I didn’t realize that I was the one creating that reality for myself. I was the one that thought if there was no resistance then there must be no reward.

The ironic thing was that she introduced me to the law of attraction at an early age. But, it didn’t stick. I thought she sounded nuts. I struggled with depression and anxiety as a teenager and into adulthood. I used food to self-medicate.  Depressed – eat. Happy – eat. Feeling lonely – eat. Then, I’d starve myself. I’d go for days without eating. It was the yoyo diet method. See where I am going here? It didn’t get better for me as a young adult.

Because of the glass ceiling, my experience in corporate America was frustrating. I ended up in a vicious cycle of victimizing myself repeatedly. And then, I’d manifest conditions to preserve my negative circumstances and justify my crappy thinking. I’d see the world as a bad place, filled with bad people. Just turn on the news, if you need proof. Blah. I am going to hide in the woods. My safe place from people.

It wasn’t until I was pregnant with my daughter that I realized I needed to change. I didn’t want her to grow up with a frustrated and depressed mom. I wanted her to have the most fun, happy, loving mom in the world and the most magical happy childhood that has ever existed.  But, I knew I couldn’t give that to her until I changed. I had to do an attitude adjustment. I had lost the connection to my own inner child (soul). I went on a spiritual growth path to find God. I read every self-help book I could get my hands on. I studied the teachings of the Ascended Masters.

I not only found God, but I found Kelley. YAY!

I transformed my mindset and thoughts practically overnight. It finally clicked. Eureka! I am co-creating with Source with my thoughts. Wow! Hello, Earth to Houston come in, I am creating my reality. I realized everything my mother had tried to tell me as a teenager that I thought was so ridiculous, finally clicked. It was miraculous.

I took my power back from the world. I owned my power. I realized I was making myself a victim over and over again. I realized that I was in complete control. I was making my life harder for myself than it needed to be. I let go of the stories I had been telling myself for years. I focused all my energy on positive things. I put the blinders on to the negative news media. Instead, I focused on the beautiful future I would have with my gorgeous little girl. And all the wonderful things I couldn’t wait to show her.

Isn’t it amazing as parents we want to give the very best to our children? Yet, we can so often deny ourselves the very same LOVE.

This is the reason I’m so PASSIONATE about helping others now. I feel like if I could do it – ANYONE CAN!

The key is when you change your thoughts, you change your life. Yes, it’s true that you have to want it more than anything. In other words, commit yourself to the steps necessary for change. I knew that I had to change me to be a better mother. You want to own up to the part that you play in your own life. I am I playing the victim? Am I playing the martyr? Am I the glass-half-full kind of gal?

You can’t change what you don’t acknowledge. You want to own up to the limiting beliefs and the negative self- talk you’re imposing on yourself. Because how you talk to yourself will determine your SUCCESS or failure in this life.

I think often, how I used to make things harder than they need to be. Because I thought PROSPERITY can’t possibly be THAT easy to manifest? One of my big money blocks was you can’t make more money because it’s hard work. And who wants to work harder? Not me!

But it IS that easy. Manifesting PROSPERITY doesn’t have to be difficult. Your mind is so powerful. All you have to do is decide what you want. If you pay attention, it’s actually remarkable how often you’ll hear limiting phrases come out of people who have everything within them to fulfill their potential. And live their best life. But don’t because they affirm their reality with, ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

“I can’t____”

“I wish I could but _____.”

“I can’t afford that.”

It’s not until you realize that your language determines your reality. That you’ll finally figure out it’s THESE phrases that are perpetuating a reality of constant “I cant’s,” “I wish,” and “I can’t afford that’s.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Don’t declare such a reality. Instead, task your subconscious mind to seek ways in which you CAN. Successful people ask lots of questions because they know the power of, “What you seek, you shall find.” If you’re seeking reasons of why you can’t, you’ll find those answers. ⠀

If you ask yourself “How can I?” then you’ll find the answers to that NEW question. Successful people just ask better questions. They don’t consider that they CAN’T do something.  They know they can- it’s just a matter of re-framing the question to find the answer they want.

This applies in life and in business. Instead of shutting down your dreams, challenge your every thought. These are just opinions, not facts. You’re creating the SUCCESS you desire or hindering your success by creating blocks. Either way, it’s up to you.

This means you’re allowed to always be a WORK in PROGRESS and you can still be successful and happy. There is no perfect person or perfect situation. You might have days where things don’t seem to go right or you feel lousy. Everyone goes through that sometimes, it’s normal. How you deal with a bad day and what you project into the world shapes your future. As you UPGRADE your life, you’ll have new challenges. But it’s how you perceive them that leads you to true happiness and success.

If today was your last day on Earth, would you die proud of the light you have shined, even if it wasn’t perfect? Even if you didn’t always feel ready but you went for it anyway? Or, would you die with regret you waited your entire life to feel ready? Or you waited for your circumstances to be perfect before you took a risk?

My goal is to help you feel confident, to live boldly, and share your gifts with the world. Even on your bad days. Even when you don’t feel ready. Maybe there are times you don’t feel worthy. But trust me, you are! People love other people who are real! We crave AUTHENTICITY. You can be BOTH a work in progress AND still be successful and happy. You can still create a life or business that you LOVE while constantly growing and figuring it out.

with enormous love,

XO

Kelley

your life force energy is more valuable than money

Your life force energy is everything. And everything is energy. It’s important to VALUE your life force energy. Because you CREATE the life you truly desire from your life force energy. You build abundance from your life force energy. You grow your biz or career from your life force energy. Your life force energy is MORE VALUABLE to you than money. I know that since I was a little kid, I learned that money ruled the world. When you have it flowing to you, life is good. When you don’t have money, life is a struggle. What messages did you learn about money growing up? Where did you get them from? Parents, teachers, ads, or…? Think of an early memory about money and how it affects you now.

One of the most helpful works that I have ever done in my life is to UPGRADE my Money Mindset. That is, change my beliefs about money. Today I see money in a more objective way. Money is a tool. It’s a vehicle for you to be more, do more, have more, and give more. Let me ask you this, Describe your relationship with money in five words or less. Why those words?

For me, money is FREEDOM, independence, liberation, choice, and power. Money attracts opportunities and gives you options. It allows you to say YES to anything you want without hesitation. By seeing money in this way, you attract more of it into your life. You can’t help but stop playing small when you let go of your scarcity mindset.

What I mean by this is that some people get hung up thinking that wanting more money is greedy. Or that it makes them “evil.” They let old money stories from their childhood, for example, “We can’t afford that.” Or “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” dictate their financial success. Another false belief we have been taught is that “making money is hard work.” Well, who wants to kill themselves working hard? I don’t. So, people may shy away from making money because they believe it’s too hard.  That’s why you want to examine your beliefs around money. So that you can align with the prosperity that the universe is waiting to give to you. Creator wants you abundant. Because it is a win/win. The more you have the more you can give in the world.

Here is another false belief that can hold up your prosperity. Limiting yourself based on how other people or society thinks you should live. For instance, how much money you should have. Money is not evil. It doesn’t make someone evil. Money is currency.  Putting limitations on yourself, and your money traps you in an endless cycle of never having enough. Or being able to break through your income cap. This causes more stress and anxiety around money which creates more lack. The TRUTH is money is energy.

Money is like water—it flows, and as it flows, it nourishes life. We feel happy when it flows our way, distressed when it does not.

Money can amplify your best qualities. Therefore, you shouldn’t feel guilty for wanting more of it.  It’s actually very spiritual. Because your spirit lives in the material world. You live for the body. You live for the mind. You live for the soul. One is not better than the other, all are needed for your wholeness and success. You can be spiritual and rich. As easily as you can be spiritual and poor. In the past, this was a big money block for me to learn as I have shared with you. There was a time where I was only living for the spiritual and my material life paid the price. In truth, the more money you have, the more you can help others. It defines the meaning and purpose of your life. The universe/spirit/God wants you to be HAPPY and abundant. And to share your love and abundance. Like everything, money is energy which flows freely, cycles and recycles.  Do your mission work and the money will follow. The money follows the mission. 

How much you want to earn is up to you. And you need never feel guilty for wanting more or for trading your gifts for money. What you trade in time is up to you. You decide what amount of money is worth your time or effort. Life force energy is all you have. So, it’s important to set boundaries and honor your limits. For you to easily enjoy the money you’re making. If you’re miserable in the way you earn it. Or you’re stretching yourself so thin that you don’t even have time to enjoy it. That isn’t what the universe wants for you. DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO BE DOING IS LIFE.  You’re going to be the most successful doing work that you want to be doing. It’s the path to happiness. And it’s worth the effort to find out what it is you want to be doing. 

To be truly FINANCIALLY EMPOWERED, you want to take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for your money, and your Money Mindset. Think of it this way. If you’ve never bought a house before, would you take advice about buying one from someone who’s never been a homeowner? The same rings true for successful, wealthy people. Think of all the successful millionaires and billionaires in the world. Do they let other people take up their time? Or question their worthiness for being wealthy? And worry about the opinions of other people regarding their priorities or business? And let others dictate how they run their business? Absolutely No!  They’re leaders. They follow their own path. And go their own way. Because wealthy people know that no one else is trading their life force energy for money. The same goes for you. No one else is trading your life force energy for your prosperity. So why would you let old money stories or other people’s opinions keep you thinking small? And hold back your abundance. The Money Report can help you understand your money psychology. And where your best opportunities are for building wealth from your natal birth chart.

You get to decide your WORTH in this life. You don’t have to work harder to make more money.  You want to work smarter. Trust your intuition about your REAL needs and the needs of your business. It’s about progress, not perfection. Don’t let a bump in the road derail your progress. You and your business don’t have to be perfect before you can earn like someone in the big leagues. We all start small and GROW.

And what’s more valuable than money? Your life force energy. Because YOUR life force energy is what you use to build your prosperity. You don’t necessarily create prosperity from money. Your life force energy is more REAL in actual experience than money. Life force energy is all you have and more precious. It defines the meaning and purpose of your life. And it’s given to you from Creator. And so is your abundance. Do what you want to do. Be true to your mission (life purpose) and the money will follow. 

with enormous love,

XO

Kelley

You’re Setting the Foundation for the Next 20 Years…

Wherever your mind goes, the energy follows. You have feelings for the things you think about. Feelings become beliefs, and beliefs are a powerful manifestor. This time of year can be really challenging to have a positive attitude with such a focus on the material side of life. The turbulence, the stress and being in a hurry. These can take a toll on your well-being.

Did you know that the way you think and how you feel emit an energetic vibration?  Attracting similar vibrations or circumstances to you. Like, will attract like. Those little birds of a feather? They do love to flock together. I’ve chatted about this before, that this is true of anything in our universe, including money.

Think about what you were told about money as a child versus your financial circumstances now. Your parents may have said things like, “We can’t afford that,” “That’s too expensive,” or “You can’t always get what you want.” You may have watched one of your parents come home from an unfulfilling nine-to-five office job drained and beaten down. These repeated phrases stick with us and can shape our relationship with money as we grow up.

The habits we learn as children are hard to reprogram because they’re repeated through the constant influence of our families. If you were taught that life is hard, money is hard to make, or that rich people are bad or greedy. Then, that will probably be true for you when you grow up. The thought of money may provoke feelings of guilt or hesitance. This creates resistance. And your resistance blocks the flow of money to you because everyone needs and wants money. YAY! This is a good thing. You might not even realize that you have discomfort about money. These are our money blocks. Sometimes money blocks are buried so deep in our psychology that we are not consciously aware that we are blocking our money flow. And that is why I have created an entire program on removing your money blocks. I will talk more about this with you in January. Just to give you a heads up. During the first four months in 2019, you will be setting the foundation for the next 20 years of your life. That doesn’t mean you can’t change things along the way, of course, you can adjust your journey. And, you can see that this new year is a powerful game-changer for your life. Here are a few tools that can help you get off to a great start in the New Year.

Back to empowering your money mindset…the circumstances you have now or were born into don’t define what your future circumstances will be. That is because your future is determined by the choices you make today. This is good news, however, if you believe your poor position will never change, then it won’t because you won’t be inspired to change it. Your negative thoughts will only get more negative making you feel hopeless, apathetic, or defeated. It requires mental discipline to change our habits including our habits about money.

However, if you’re open to believing you can achieve anything in your life regardless of circumstances, then you can! Nothing can stop you from bettering yourself or your situation. This is a great truth! You are not destined to struggle and be unhappy. When you decide that you won’t settle for less than the best, your energy vibrates confidently and you attract more abundance into your life. You attract greater opportunities to you.  This positive energy will motivate and inspire you to do anything to change your circumstances. Your heart will be open to new possibilities and see any hiccup in the road as a lesson to learn and grow from.

In my last blog post, I gave you, “7 Secrets to Magic Money Making.” Most people told me that they loved the program and thanked me for sharing it with them. One person posted that it was too much work to do these, and she didn’t want to burn out. Building a biz you love and making a great living will require commitment, sacrifice, and hard work. There is no get rich quick scheme. I think Teddy Roosevelt says it best:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” -Teddy Roosevelt

See yourself as having everything you want. Believe you can have all the money you want or wish to make. You’ll not only be excited to make it, but you’ll attract people into your life who want to give you money. You might get an unexpected refund, a free meal, a new client, or an I.O.U. paid back with interest to you. Yay You!

If you’re new to the Law of Attraction, it might be difficult to believe changing your thoughts will change your life. And cause awesome abundance to enter your life. Thankfully, you don’t have to be an expert or even fully understand it to create magic. Good things will come to you stay the course and do the work. Keep your heart open and your thoughts positive. You need not know how, when, or what. Just know good things are on the way to you. Look for the sunny side of any rainy situation. You’ll discover that joy and love flow more easily.

You are always co-creating with the universe. Your thoughts and beliefs dictate what you create in your life. The universe is neutral; it simply delivers based on the energy you put out. The thoughts you are thinking and the actions you are taking. Money is also neutral, and it flows to you based on this same energy.

If your life is not yet what you want it to be, take comfort in knowing it can change in minutes. All you have to do is align yourself with what you want. Know you’re deserving of having it. Take steps every day in the direction you want to go. Being committed to your goals. Be willing to sacrifice. And never give up on your dreams. You will overcome anything that troubles you now or in the future. When you’re feeling low, think about what brings you joy. Gratitude is the greatest mood elevator and the fastest way to change your energy. Be grateful for the riches you have and you will be rich.   

with enormous love,

XO

Kelley