Now is the time to THRIVE!

Before you laugh, hear me out. 

I believe in the power of mindset – in the power of attraction. Believe it, and you will achieve it. This includes milestones you want to tackle, such as careers and wealth, but also feelings, like happiness and well-being. 

When I first started my career, I took a job that was not anywhere near what I studied in college. I figured it was short-term. It paid the bills while I looked for my dream job. I went to work and did my job. I wasn’t happy there, and it showed. I’d come home every night frustrated and annoyed by my day’s work, then pour my energy into looking for a new job. I sent resume after resume and heard nothing. I got more and more frustrated and upset as time went on. 

Then, one day, a coworker I had confided in said something interesting. “Why would anyone hire such a miserable worker?” 

I replied, “Well, how would a new job even know I was so unhappy here?” 

Then he said something magical. “You get from the universe what you give.”

I’m not going to lie. I wasn’t immediately convinced, and my attitude at my current job didn’t change overnight. But, as I thought through what he said to me, I realized he was right. Slowly, I did change without even realizing it. I can’t say I was ever happy at that job, but I came to accept it was where I was meant to be at the time. I found a place of peace, and I’m sure my attitude reflected it. 

I continued sending resumes out for my dream job. And very soon after that shift, I got two offers. It was the universe’s way of rewarding me for putting out positive energy. It’s a lesson I’ll never forget, I remember even more fervently in difficult times. 

The world is in an unprecedented situation right now. We’re all filled with uncertainty. We are scared (at least I am.) We’re worried about our futures and how long the COVID-19 scare will last. Weeks? Months? The rest of the year? No one knows. I look to the stars every month to see what’s in store for myself and all of you, but some things can’t be answered with exacting degrees.

Here’s what I do know. A lot of you have extra time right now. You might be working from home – saving you commute time. You might have less work, be temporarily out of work, or you might even be laid off. 

If you have extra time, use it! Put your positive energy into the world. If you have a hobby you’ve always wanted to try, do it now! If you’ve got a reading list a mile long, grab the first book, and start reading. If you’re running a business, THIS IS YOUR TIME. Work on those YouTube videos. Get that website going. Put together that free gift for your mailing list. 

I also realize that not everyone has extra time right now. If you’re working in healthcare, a grocery store, or one of the many other essential services…Bless You! We need you now more than ever. Know that you are where the universe needs you to be, fulfilling our greatest needs. The world can’t thank you enough.  

This craziness will eventually end. Things go back to a new normal.  You will have traveled a journey to be proud of. Let it feed your soul. No matter what your next project or endeavor is in life, know that you have done what so many could not have. And you now have that power to channel into the future you design.

We design our own futures. With every day, with every action, and with every thought.

Now, what thoughts and actions will you take today to make the future you’re dreaming about?

Love and blessings,

Kelley

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How to stress less and sleep better

Have you ever noticed that on nearly every sitcom, the entire show revolves around a miscommunication? It usually starts out that someone is afraid to tell someone something. Before you know it, there’s a whole hilarious situation that came out of a lack of information. In the end, everyone inevitably gathers and has a good laugh.

I don’t watch a lot of TV. It drives me nuts to see people skirt around issues. And I can’t stand to watch people dance around what they want to say. And let me tell you, the repercussions of poor communication are rarely hilarious. 

In the real world, what do you get from holding back or hiding how you feel? Nothing good comes from hiding information. Maybe you do it because you’re trying to protect someone’s feelings. Perhaps you’re afraid to let people down. Maybe you dislike conflict so much that you’d rather keep your real feelings to yourself. Or, for some people, they were punished as children when they spoke their truth. So, they learned it’s better to lie than to be honest.

But the truth is, you’re really not protecting anyone – not even yourself. Because holding your feelings back creates a loss of identity. You can wake up one day and not know who you really are and what you want. Pleasing others can lead to a loss of your own soul. And nothing in this world is worth losing your soul. It’s all you have to take with you when you transition into Spirit. It’s the BEST part of you! Your soul is your inner child. The part of you that is immortal and timeless. The outer form ages but the soul (the inner child) doesn’t. This is good news!

Next time something doesn’t feel right, stop. Take a deep breath and think about what you would want to hear. Would you want someone to tell you what they think you want to hear? Or would you rather hear the truth? Of course, you want the TRUTH! Sometimes the truth is even a little bit uncomfortable. It’s better than being lied to or led to believe something else, though, right?

From this moment forward, you want to commit yourself to the following:

  • Say no when you’re overcommitted. 
  • Ask for help when you need it. 
  • Speak the plain – and sometimes ugly – truth, so people know what’s in your heart.
  • And, for goodness sakes, tell the people you love how you feel!

Now, let’s talk about that ugly truth. I’m not saying you should walk down the street and tell random people you think their outfit is hideous. There’s no good in that. And, it’s not your business anyway.

You’re not out to hurt people. You’re out to live true to yourself. And, ultimately, you want to let others love you – the REAL YOU. They can’t love you, if they don’t know you. 

Speak your truth. Others may not always agree. They may not always heed your advice or requests. But, I guarantee your relationships will be healthier. And your life will be far LESS stressful because you’re not driving around with so much junk in your trunk.

Follow these four guidelines every day. I promise you’ll go to sleep each night feeling much more at ease with your own soul. And you’ll sleep better and wake up feeling empowered. Because you know who your true friends are. And who is really on your team. And you’re LOVING YOU. This too is good news. 

Now a quick question.

I’d love to learn more about you:

What is ONE thing that you’re trying (or dying) to improve in your work or life right now? 

Comment here and let me know. I read every reply myself.

Love,

Kelley
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Your wish is my command…

I recently spoke to my dear followers and students about the importance of being impeccable with your word and always speaking with integrity. It’s important to only to say what you mean and mean what you say. You want to use the power of your words in the direction of TRUTH and LOVE. This includes in your own direction. I was recently told by my coach that my mission is to teach people how to love themselves properly. You can say that you love yourself, but when you neglect your self-care – that is work too hard and don’t get enough rest, or if you tolerate another’s disrespectful behavior – that is not proper self-love.

Everything you say has a vibration and a ripple effect. It’s made more significant by the energy and emotion you put behind it. You may have heard of the “I Am” principle. 

Every time you use the words “I Am.” you’re quoting the name of God. This is your Highest Self. Every time you say, “I Am,” you are creating your life and yourself.

You are truly extraordinary and capable of creating anything you want in your life. 

I often get asked questions about what can be manifested: 

“Can I manifest my soulmate?” 

“Can I manifest a new car?”

“Can I manifest a better job with double the income?” 

The answer is always, “Yes!” Yes, to everything! 

It does require that you are ready for what you ask for. That you are in vibrational alignment with it. And, you always want to say what you want aloud and as if you already have it.

“Thank you, universe, for the soulmate now in my life.”

“Thank you, universe, for my beautiful new car.” 

“Thank you, universe, for doubling my income.” 

See where I am going with this? When you say it this way, you are letting the universe know that you ready to receive what your heart desires. You’re always co-creating with the universe and manifesting your thoughts and beliefs into reality. This is why you want to be purposeful and intentional.

“Purpose and intention can be the foundation of satisfaction. When you choose the way to go and then get there.
Surely be proud of what you have accomplished.” –Ivo, Lisa Dorr
 

This can cause some people a lot of anxiety. They think that if they stop being positive for a minute or have a bad day, that they’ll start manifesting bad or difficult situations and circumstances into their lives. The universe doesn’t work like that. Merely having a negative thought won’t bring negative circumstances. It’s when you believe in those negative thoughts and put energy behind them, that those negative circumstances can manifest. If you have a negative thought and start to feel bad, choose a new thought. Take a walk. Distract yourself with something else. Don’t feed the beast.

Your subconscious mind creates from your inner beliefs. It works like a Genie in the bottle. Your wish is my command! Your subconscious mind believes what you program into it. That’s why mantras work. But, it’s not enough to say positive things. You have to follow through with action. You can do this by being kind to yourself.

Simply saying you believe something won’t make it manifest. Unless you genuinely have faith, that you deserve it and expect it with excitement and gratitude. When you program your conscious mind to be in a place of love. “I Am Love.” You’ll manifest love. You’ll attract love to you. And this empowers you to spread your LIGHT and warmth to others. This starts with loving you.  

You know the old saying, as you sew, sew shall you reap. That’s the law of attraction! 

It can be hard to wrap your mind around accumulating massive wealth or having the freedom to do the things you want.  Because you have yet to reach that level in your financial life.  

Back with your Genie in the bottle. You can program your subconscious mind to accept your new truths. This is where “I Am” affirmations can come in handy. Once you say a statement often. Your subconscious mind goes to work. It will accept them as truth. And your manifestations will begin to arrive quickly and with ease. This also works great to say what you desire right before you go to sleep. This way you can sleep on it and let your subconscious do the work. When you awake, write down what comes to mind. Think positive thoughts about what you want. Speak with purpose. And speak with clarity to ensure that your life is always filled with joy and love. 

While brief negative thoughts won’t instantly manifest bad things into your life, you want to avoid speaking against yourself.  It’s normal to have a bad day. And, it’s totally okay to feel those emotions when they do come up. But try not to linger on them. Love you more.

And this holds true for what you say about others too. You’re actually saying and wishing for yourself. The reason is that your subconscious mind can’t tell the difference between you speaking about yourself or someone else. It takes everything in as truth about YOU. This is why there is no such thing as No. In an attraction-based universe where we live. Because everything means YES come to me.

This is why gratitude and forgiveness practices are significant. It’s not so much that you must forgive someone who has hurt you, but that you forgive another for your own peace of mind. It’s not to let your guard down. You forgive yourself for having to go through the painful experience. This way you will let go of the negative emotions that difficult situations create because they can lower your vibration and block your abundance. And abundance is your birthright. Thank you, universe, for the abundance that is mine. 

You are always creating with the universe. To use your gifts and share your light is to create consciously with God. It is your spiritual power. You were put on this planet for this! There is literally nothing you can’t have, do, or be. And you want to be intentional. 

This is why I started the Kelley Rosano Academy. I believe so much in the power of the Law of Attraction. And that you CAN be ANYTHING you set your mind too. I’m living proof of that! That you too can reinvent yourself. I knew very little about YouTube when I started my channel. But I believed that I was on the right path. And so, I made my way.  

Now, I want to help YOU make your way. So, I’ve created the YouTube Insiders. Where I will take you on a journey with me inside YouTube. And you will learn some of the best YouTube secrets. You can sign up here for our free Webinar on August 1. And I will see you there!

Here’s to your awesome abundance,

Love,

Kelley

xxx

Be your biggest fan

I got out of the corporate world years ago. There were many reasons why I wanted to work for myself.  I can focus on what work interests me the most. My pay isn’t dictated by salary grades and company earnings. I can set my schedule however it suits me. What’s not to love?! But the main reason I left was that I wanted to be surrounded by people that were HAPPY or at least seeking to better themselves. Day in and day out, I was going to work with people – and let’s face it – mostly women who wanted to complain about everything and gossip nonstop. “Did you hear what so-and-so said at the meeting?” and “Can you believe he did that?” 

Every day I left the office exhausted by other people’s problems. And, when I say problems, I don’t mean “what so-and-so did.” I mean all the petty people that are more interested in what others do, and all the while they’re doing NOTHING productive themselves. Talk about hypocrites.

When you focus on other people, you put the blame everywhere but yourself. And none of us are blameless. No one in this world is perfect, and you know what?! Perfect is boring anyway. Next time you have the urge to start airing someone else’s business, remember that: PERFECT IS BORING. Save your energy and focus on the positive. Positive thoughts and words will raise your vibration. The truth is you make the most negative karma by what comes out of your mouth. Negativity will always bring you down. Spending your energy for one moment thinking ill of someone else is like volunteering to be burdened by irrelevant problems. Who needs other people’s crap? Let them deal with it themselves. Focus on you. Love you. Heal you. Be your own best friend. Be your BIGGEST FAN. 

Think of how much extra time you’ll have, if you pledge to focus on yourself and let other people and their problems fall by the wayside. Remember to BE KIND to yourself as well, though. Just as you will no longer speak ill of others, you can no longer speak ill of yourself.

No more putdowns about your weight or your hair. No more sarcastic comments about your weaknesses. And no regrets, please. Live for today. Just positive vibes. You can do this if you are present. I’ve run into so many people over the years that are their own worst enemy. Just think what you could accomplish if you were your BIGGEST FAN instead of your biggest enemy? Celebrate what you do well. Celebrate the effort. Don’t beat yourself up at what you struggle at. Not everyone can do everything well, and – I’m going to repeat it – PERFECT IS BORING! You’re not perfect, and you’re not boring. You’ve got unique talents that need nurturing. There is only one of you. You are not replaceable. What would you be doing if you were ten times bolder? What is that dream in your heart? Does it whisper to your soul? 

Start celebrating what you do well (and forget what you don’t). And I promise your confidence will SOAR. What would be the first thing on your list to accomplish, if you had the courage to take on anything? The sky’s the limit! Would you learn a new skill? Start a new business? Go back to school? Begin a new love relationship?

In my Academy, I’ve made it my goal to help both women and men learn how to break through money blocks. Build self-confidence, and create the businesses of their dreams. It’s my passion, and I too want to help you. I’ve got a free webinar coming up where I’m going to reveal some of my YouTube SECRETS and how YOU can be a YouTube-preneur, too!

Back in the day, before I came onto YouTube, I was feeling kind of stuck. I had been in my practice for 17 years. But I had lost that loving feeling.  And I was clueless as to how to get it back. I was at the point where I had nothing to lose.

Because I was going nowhere fast, I thought maybe it’s time to try something new like YouTube. It was the answer for me. Because it gave me a new passion and direction. YouTube INJECTED NEW LIFE into me and got me out of my doldrums. If you too have been wondering what your next move is, or you’re feeling stuck, if you have been feeling ready for something new in your life and work such as a new path and passion, YouTube could work for you too! There are so many ways that you can use it. Maybe you want more exposure for a cause, charity or nonprofit. Or maybe you want to create a community around a hobby. Do you dream of financial independence or becoming a YouTube Superstar? Whatever your goal is, I can help you make it happen. Your best is yet to be. 

Sign up here to be notified as soon as the webinar date and time are announced.

I’d love to see you there!

Live your wildest dreams,

Kelley

XXX

 

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Four lessons for happiness that will make you smile

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how addicted most of us are to social media, as wonderful as it can be. This is for sure. You can have that instant connection across the globe. This I do love about it, but I hear a lot of people say that they feel inadequate and unworthy in their own lives because of it. So many people use it to brag or show off. Like they are living an amazing life. This could be true, but often when you peel the curtain back, you see that it’s just hype. For the sake of helping you to live your absolute BEST life now, I want to address some things that could hinder your personal growth or happiness.

Lesson One

Always speak with INTEGRITY. Say only what you mean, and mean what you say. Avoid speaking against yourself or gossiping about others. Both are too toxic. Use the power of your words to send truth and love into the world.

I’m sure that you’ve had encounters with people who irritate you, or there’s just something about them you don’t like. They rub you the wrong way. It can be hard not to be judgmental or critical of others when you feel this way. Stand back and try to recognize that it’s usually the qualities you dislike in yourself that others are mirroring back to you.  

Maybe you have a loud coworker who irritates you. Instead of complaining about it. Look at the situation with love. Perhaps the reason it bothers you so much is that you were scolded as a child for being loud. “Please use your indoor voice,” you heard from your parents. Suddenly, there’s something relatable between you. This makes it easier to send her love. You’ve not lowered your vibration with complaining, “Oh, this person is so loud all the time.”  Instead, you have raised it with the feeling of ONENESS.

This awareness can help you figure out where you’re lacking in your Personal Path Development. I have a program that you can use to further your Personal Path Development. This is my gift to you. Another upside to this is that when you’re attracted to the good qualities in someone. It’s another mirror! It means that you too have that quality in you. And the circle of LOVE continues. This is good news!

Speak only positive things about yourself and others, and that’s the reality you will create.

Lesson Two

Take nothing personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality – their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others. You won’t be the victim of needless suffering. Miguel Ruiz taught us this important and most valuable lesson.

It’s easy to let yourself feel inadequate sometimes. Especially when you’re scrolling through Facebook or Instagram. It may look like your friends, family, or even strangers are so much further ahead in life. Or having these amazing lives, and you’re here trekking through the mud of life, doing the heavy lifting. Keep in mind that people usually only post their highlight reels, not their struggles. Or their truth.

As you may already know, comparisons are the thief of all joy. You always come up short when you compare yourself to others. Maybe the problem is that you feel like your nose is constantly being rubbed in someone else’s achievements. “Look how great so and so is doing.” Know that it’s unlikely anyone is purposefully trying to make you feel miserable or unworthy.

If you find you’re comparing and despairing, then it’s time to get strict about who you spend time with and what you’re focusing your energy on. Get off the phone, shut off the computer, and go hang out in the community where you live – where life is real. Nature, too, is healing. The smells in the Forest, the trees, and the flowers can cleanse you. In Japan, where the stress levels are higher than the west. (Can you believe it?) They call it Forest Bathing. The Asians use the Forest to destress and heal. Getting out into nature can help you ground, and remind you what truly matters in your life. You are here to FEEL GOOD and wear a smile on your face.

Lesson Three

Don’t make assumptions. You know the old saying, “When you assume, you make an ass out of you and an ass out of me.” I know that sounds silly, but it has helped me to pump the brakes when I’ve felt triggered by something.  For example, don’t assume that someone is upset with you and then become impatient with them just because they’re quiet. It could be because they have a lot of work on their plate OR they are distracted by something going on inside of them. And your assumption could lead to an unnecessary argument.

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others clearly to avoid misunderstandings or drama. With just this one lesson, you can completely transform your life. The best way to WIN an argument is to avoid one.

Lesson Four

Always do your best. Your best will change from day to day. For me, it depends on how much sleep I’ve had. Situations change, and all you can do is take it one day at a time. There will always be challenges and fires to put out. My bank account was hacked into by thieves yesterday. They didn’t get away anything, but my stress levels hit the red zone, and now I am cleaning up the mess they made. This is a distraction from my real work. It’s okay if your BEST varies from day to day. The most important thing is to give life your best and let go of the rest. You can only control your best.

This message has been coming to me from Spirit like a broken record. Everything happens in divine and perfect timing. Your life, until now, has happened in its perfect timing. The decisions you’ve made led you to where you are now. Don’t live in fear or doubt because you are always divinely guided. You’re exactly where you need to be. The POWER within you is greater than any challenge that comes your way.

Even if your life isn’t exactly what you want it to be right now. Who the hell is? Keep the faith. Have peace and confidence your dreams will manifest in your divine timing. APPRECIATE who you are and what you have had to overcome to get here. Be appreciative for what you have today because everything you want or need is on the way. This is universal law.

You are who you are now because you’ve made the best choices and taken the best actions when you needed to and that’s all you can do. Hindsight is great. But you do the best you can with what you knew at the time. Waste no energy in regret. When YOU know better, YOU do better.

“Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will AVOID self-judgment and self-abuse.” — Miguel Ruiz

Be your own authority and trust your inner authority. No one knows what’s best for you better than you. I failed that lesson a few months ago. When I trusted someone else’ authority over my own. And it was a painful and costly lesson for me, but I learned NEVER to do that again. YAY!

I hope these lessons help you spend every day focusing on the positive and spreading LOVE everywhere you go. You are LOVED! You are here to feel good. And to feel good about YOU. Having fun? Take time to include fun in your day, every day. And if that means getting offline then so be it! But not until you’ve read my blog. 😊

with enormous love,

XO

Kelley

PS. Here’s that link again to the Personal Path Development Program